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Thursday 3 November 2011

WOMAN TICKS HC JUDGE OFF FOR 'MAKING' HER NINE-YEAR-OLD SON CRY

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The boy, whose parents are separated, started sobbing when the judge told 
the kid that he should spend time with his father. If he did not follow the 
order - or stop crying - "we will send you to the police station." The 
sobbing continued for more than an hour outside the court

Amother took on a High Court judge on Wednesday (02-11-2011) for trying 
to scare her nine-year-old son into spending his weekends and holidays with 
his father and threatening him with jail if he didn't.

Justice N K Patil and Justice C R Kumaraswamy were hearing a case 
between Raja Lakshmi and Subraya Manja over the custody of their son and 
were trying to convince the woman to send her son to meet his father on 
weekends and school holidays. The boy, however, started crying when he heard 
this.

"We are telling you to meet your father on the last Saturday and Sunday 
of the month and half of the vacation. If you don't, we will send you to the 
police station. Your father has the same affection for you. Do not act like 
this. He is your father, he is also human. Your father is not your enemy. 
You can meet him once in a month," Justice Patil told the boy.

On seeing the boy's tears, he said, "We are not disturbing your stay 
with your mother. You can stay with her, but meet your father also. If not, 
we will send you permanently with your father."

By this time, the boy was howling loudly, saying, "Please, please."

But Justice Patil told the boy, "If you cry, we will send you to jail. 
Is it not your duty to tell your mother that you want to meet your father 
and discuss things with him?"

The judge then turned to the mother's counsel: "It is your duty to tell 
your client that she should let the boy meet his father. Otherwise, you will 
kill the future of the child. If you people cannot arrive at a compromise, 
we will pass an order as per the facts of the case. We are tired of such 
things. Unless we pass the order, you won't understand the trouble."

The couple had separated after a year of marriage and have been living 
apart for 10 years now. A lower court had ordered for the restitution of 
conjugal rights but Lakshmi had refused to go back to her husband.

During Wednesday's hearing, Justice Patil asked both the parties to talk 
to each other and arrive at a compromise. But their counsel said that the 
couple was not on talking terms and was incompatible.

The judge said, "It is a problem they have created. If they do not talk 
face to face, the matter won't be decided. Neither he nor she will be happy. 
Let them live together for four months and see if they can lead a compatible 
life. The husband may now realise the importance of a wife. Many who have 
made mistakes have become model citizens and better human beings. 
Unfortunately, our society has not developed family counsellors." The judge 
then adjourned the case for some time and asked the parties to talk to each 
other.

SYMPATHY ALL AROUND:
During the adjournment, the boy continued to cry outside the court as his 
mother tried to console him. "Amma please, let us go home. I do not want to 
go inside again," the boy kept repeating. Other clients, advocates and even 
the policeman on duty tried to console the boy but to no avail. When the 
court resumed at 4.30 pm, both mother and boy stayed outside.

DAD'S VERSION:
Manja, the boy's father, told the court that he and his son would earlier 
play cricket and lagori, but his wife was not letting them meet. He told the 
court, "She did not even invite her father to our wedding. I earn Rs 40,000 
per month and can take care of the child. I can take care of her like a 
queen. After marriage, the luck of her brother and sister turned for good 
and they kept me away. She left me nine years ago and did not come back."

At this point, Lakshmi who was consoling her son outside the court hall, 
stormed in. "I was in hospital during childbirth but he did not once come to 
see me. He should have fed me when I was carrying. You will not understand 
how tough it is for a woman to become a second wife to a man. I will not go 
with him. I have brought up my son," she told the court.

Justice Patil told her that her husband was repenting. She countered, 
"Repentance is different and leading a life is different. Even I will 
repent, but how will anyone understand how I agreed to become his second 
wife and how badly he treated me. He used me like a worker. For two years, 
he produced xerox copies in court, showing that he had sent me alimony. But 
he didn't. He should have fed me when the child was born. Why else would the 
child fear going with him? After you scared him, he is still crying after 
one hour."

After this outburst, the court sent both of them out of the court and 
read out the judgment. It ordered that since the child was of a tender age, 
he should not be deprived of the love and affection of both the parents. It 
ordered that the boy spend the last weekend of every month and half his 
vacations with the father. "Tell your client to motivate the child to meet 
the father, otherwise he will get full custody," the judge told the mother's 
advocate. 

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